Stuff I Jerk Off To

chelseapoe:

Queers who are some of your favorite porn performers? I feel like being in porn has me also too far inside circles to hear who people really actually are fans of. 

Mandy Mitchell, Justine Joli, Sebastian Keys, Jiz Lee, James Deen, Lance Hart, Maitresse Madeline, Penny Flame, Kelly Wells, Ian Foxe.

I had thought that the performer who goes by CJ on Kink.com was long gone, given that his last shoot there was from 2012 … only to discover today that he’s still out there, doing [primarily straight?] work as Dutch in New York.

This video, from Foxhouse Films, is tragically short- just thirteen minutes.  But when I recognized his face and voice and saw the fishnets and eyeliner and pretty extreme anal, I was sold.  If you like/don’t mind fisting, large object penetration, and gaping (no rosebuds, but there is some AtM), it’s pretty damn hot.

Oh, and he can fuck his own ass.  Talented!

extradarknaughtybits:

She’s too happy to tag this one “BDSM.” Sure she’s bound but she doesn’t seem dominated, submissive, or masochistic.

Oh for fuck’s sake.  When we use “BDSM”, it can refer to any one of the things it stands for- bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, masochism.  It doesn’t have to be all at once, yo.
Also, since when does a smile negate somebody’s masochism, submission, or even domination?  Ever heard of “service with a smile”?

extradarknaughtybits:

She’s too happy to tag this one “BDSM.” Sure she’s bound but she doesn’t seem dominated, submissive, or masochistic.

Oh for fuck’s sake.  When we use “BDSM”, it can refer to any one of the things it stands for- bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, masochism.  It doesn’t have to be all at once, yo.

Also, since when does a smile negate somebody’s masochism, submission, or even domination?  Ever heard of “service with a smile”?

This is my favorite perspective on rimming in porn; I wanna see the face of the person getting their ass licked.

This is my favorite perspective on rimming in porn; I wanna see the face of the person getting their ass licked.

This is not a kinky photo (at least, it doesn’t seem to be, from its origin and context), but I’m enjoying pretending that it is.

This is not a kinky photo (at least, it doesn’t seem to be, from its origin and context), but I’m enjoying pretending that it is.

wiiiboy:

Christian Wilde

Well, this is a fun picture!

wiiiboy:

Christian Wilde

Well, this is a fun picture!

It’s hard for an educated woman to turn her head off. That’s part of the joy of being a submissive. None of the decisions are yours. When you can’t refuse anything and can’t even move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do - and all you are permitted to do - is feel.

Cherise Sinclair (via missb0ssyb00ts)

Why is it so hard for so many BDSM folks to use gender-neutral terminology when they’re not speaking specifically about men or women?

That’s part of the joy of being a submissive man- the fact that he’s an educated woman who can’t turn his head off?

estratonautico:

Casey Calvert

This is so awesome because you always see puppy play folks having the best time with balls and chew toys and whatnot (and on the other side, owners getting to play fetch, tug-of-war, etc.) … and most kitten/cat play is like, maybe doing the paw-lick ear cleaning move and maybe getting a saucer of milk.  (Also, lots of kittens on leashes, which any real cat owner knows is so not a palatable thing for any kitty).
So this is hella cute and makes me happy.  I actually kind of want to see a mildly humorous take on kitten play … like, she does a sexy mrrrow and he’s like “Aw yeah” and then she gallops out of the room at breakneck speed in that weird way cats do.  Lol.

estratonautico:

Casey Calvert

This is so awesome because you always see puppy play folks having the best time with balls and chew toys and whatnot (and on the other side, owners getting to play fetch, tug-of-war, etc.) … and most kitten/cat play is like, maybe doing the paw-lick ear cleaning move and maybe getting a saucer of milk.  (Also, lots of kittens on leashes, which any real cat owner knows is so not a palatable thing for any kitty).

So this is hella cute and makes me happy.  I actually kind of want to see a mildly humorous take on kitten play … like, she does a sexy mrrrow and he’s like “Aw yeah” and then she gallops out of the room at breakneck speed in that weird way cats do.  Lol.

I follow a few bimbo tumblr blogs

taraemory:

But I’m losing patience with the attitude that “all women” need to be like that, and some of the pretty clear misogynist attitudes.

I wish I could separate the ones that playfully celebrate the positive aspects of being a sexually desirable trinket - voluntarily buying into the fantasy and realities of a bimbo lifestyle), from the ones blogged from MRA’s and butthurt immature men with entitlement issues.

I dunno, I love the inspiring ideas of my tumblr porn feed, hate some of the motives behind it, because it doesn’t have to stem from misogyny

Yes, this.